happens is these communities, all of these folks are together so because of the economic standpoint and the like you have a lot of single mothers living next door to each other, kids with no fathers, they're not in a place where they see a guy getting up and going to work every day u that's a tragedy because that tells the child -- what is their life supposed to look like? >> another point, the guides have to wake up, you know. the guys have to take responsibility. so i appreciate the fact that you are focusing on the boys and the men, because you know, the rules of the game are out there. go to college, get an education, you will get a better job. and they're not going to college and they're not getting a better education and they has to be put on the table, too. >> and this issue will continue. let us know what you think. @bonnieerbe. >> from single parent households to working women. more and more, self-described feminists are opting for the traditional role of housewif.